Stop Hazing
Stop Hazing
Ending hazing requires a collective effort from everyone. All members of the Auburn Family must work to protect the plains. Keep reading for practical tips on how to respond and take proactive steps to prevent it.
The Fight to End Hazing Starts with You
We need your help to protect the plains. Hazing thrives in secrecy, but you have the power to disrupt it. The first step is recognizing when something isn't right and having the courage to call it out.
Once you see something that looks like hazing, you need to act–either by intervening directly or by reporting what is happening to others.
Signs of Hazing
- A noticeable shift in behavior or attitude after joining a group
- Expressing a desire to leave the organization without a clear reason
- Reduced communication with friends and family
- Signs of physical or mental exhaustion
- Unexplained weight loss or changes in appearance
- Mysterious injuries or frequent illness
- Disruptions in sleep or eating patterns
- Pulling away from usual activities and interests
- Expressions of sadness, hopelessness, or low self-worth
- Increased secrecy and reluctance to discuss experiences
Responding to Hazing
The more people who recognize hazing and speak up, the harder it is for it to continue. If something feels off, trust your instincts and start the conversation. Your words could be the difference between someone staying silent or getting help.
If you see something questionable, do not ignore it–ask. A simple conversation could make a huge difference.
- "Hey, you missed last night's meeting. You seem exhausted–are you okay?"
- "That outfit looks unusual for you. Did someone make you wear it?"
- "Your grades dropped, and you haven't turned in homework. What's going on?"
- "You have bruises–did someone hurt you?"
- "Where did that symbol on your skin come from? Were you branded?"
- "We haven't seen you in weeks. Are you being pressured to isolate?"
- "People are calling you a harsh nickname. Are you comfortable with that?"
These conversations will feel different depending on the situation, and people are more likely to open up if they trust you. Even if someone insists they aren't being hazed, remember–hazing can happen with or without consent.
How Parents Can Help
As your student navigates college life, building friendships and finding their place, it is important to remember that hazing is never acceptable–no matter the tradition, no matter the circumstance. Auburn University is committed to fostering a safe, supportive environment, and hazing goes against everything we stand for.
While students are oftend the ones directly impacted, parents are powerful advocates in ending hazing. Your voice matters, and staying informed about your student's experiences can help prevent harm before it happens.
- Have Open Conversations: Check in wiht your student, ask direct questions, and encourage them to share openly about their involvement in organizations. If something does not feel right, trust your instincts.
- Know the Warning Signs: Unexplained injuries, sudden behavioral changes, secrecy, isolation, and declining academic performance can be indicators of hazing.
- Encourage Your Student to Speak Up: Many students hesitate to report hazing out of fear. Let them know that reporting protects them and others, and that seeking help is always the right choice.
- Report Hazing Immediately: If you suspect hazing, do not wait–report it. Your involvement can prevent a dangerous situation from escalating.
Together, we can ensure that every student's college experience is built on respect, leadership, and a genuine belonging–without hazing.